The blessing and the curse are in language
So that our language is a blessing, first we have to ask God the Father, in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ that He take care of our thoughts, our communication and He gives us the gift of using words as well so that the our mouth only out words of praise and glorification of the Lord and of encouragement and blessing for the brothers.
The Holy Spirit of God revealed to the Apostle James whole difficulty is for man to control his tongue. He says:
My brethren, be not many teachers, knowing that we shall receive the greater condemnation. For all stumble in many ways. If any man offend not in word, the same is a perfect man, and able also to bridle the whole body. Behold, we put bits into the mouths of horses to make them obey us; and we turn about their whole body. Behold also the ships, which though so large and are driven of fierce winds, with a very small rudder wherever the pilot desires. Even so the tongue is a little member and boasts great things. See how great a forest a little fire kindles.
And the tongue is a fire; Yes, the language, a world of iniquity among our members, defiles the whole body, and sets on fire the course of nature, and is set on fire by hell. For every kind of beasts, and of birds, both of reptiles and animals of the sea, is tamed and has been tamed by mankind; But the tongue can no man tame. It is an unstoppable evil; It is full of deadly poison. With it we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse men, made in the likeness of God. From the same mouth come blessing and cursing.
They ought not, my brethren, so to be. Doth a fountain send forth at the same place sweet water and bitter? My brothers, can a fig tree bear olives, or vine figs? Nor can a source of saltwater to freshwater. Who among you is wise and understanding? Show by your good conversation his works with meekness of wisdom. But if you have bitter jealousy and selfish ambition in your hearts, glory not, and lie not against the truth. – James 3: 1-14
I said: I will keep my ways I might not sin with my tongue; I will keep my mouth with a bridle – Psalm 39: 1
The tongue of the righteous is choice silver; the heart of the wicked is of little value.
For by thy words thou shalt be justified, and by thy words thou shalt be condemned.
Matthew 12: 36-37
Keep your tongue from evil and your lips from speaking guile. – Psalm 34:13
The mouth of the righteous speaketh wisdom, and his tongue speaks what is right. – Psalm 37:30
The tongue of the righteous is choice silver; – Proverbs 10:20
The mouth of the righteous brings forth wisdom; But the perverse tongue will be cut. – Proverbs 10:31
There talker whose words pierce like a sword; but the tongue of the wise brings healing. – Proverbs 12:18
A gentle tongue is a tree of life – Proverbs 15: 4
Death and life are in the power of the tongue; and they that love it shall eat the fruit.
He who guards his mouth and his tongue keeps his soul from troubles.
If anyone considers himself religious and does not bridle his tongue but deceives his heart, his religion is worthless. – James 1:26
By long forbearing is a prince persuaded, and a gentle tongue can break a bone.
and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father. Philippians 2:11
For he that will love life, and see good days, let him refrain his tongue from evil and your lips from speaking deceit; 1 Peter 3:10
A small observation:
To man belong the plans of the heart; but the language of the answer is the Lord. Proverbs 16: 1
Whose language of the answer? … Do you!
Lord God the Father, in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ then me creativity and ability to use wisely my tongue so that I always speak of your wonderful name and also of his love and its benefits. Lord forbid that I will never use my tongue to do evil.
Amen to thank God.